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Thursday, April 12, 2007

Regret & Remorse

regret and remorse are 2 worse feelings you can ever feel. as a person, you need to think hard of what is the next step in your life. even so, sometimes you can't help making mistakes. you'll be left wondering what did you do wrong. why has it become a regret since you have thought about it long and hard. why the action/decision that you thought was right is actually wrong? you made the decision rationally and logically, weighing its pros and cons, thinking of the aftermath, of what will happen if i did this or that and yet it has become a regret.

life is just like that. you can never avoid making mistakes. at some point in your life, you'll definitely feel regret and remorse, at least once in your lifetime. and when the time comes, all that's left are just your tears and endless whys. tears of bitter disappointments and failures. tears of lost hopes and lost faith.

in theory, you can't just sit down and keep on crying. you need to stand up again, and continue with living. life, is just one take. you can never rewrite your past nor can you avoid making mistakes. you have to keep on going. but, as i said, it's just a theory.

in reality, you might just end up feeling crushed and broken. you might even never be able to stand up again. you might even never able to have the same faith or optimism. you may be cynical, bitter and not willing to trust people ever again. it really depends on how strong the person is and how bad the mistake is. it also depends on the person's character. perhaps, if the person is forgiving and trusting enough, he or she may still remain the same.

sometimes, at the very end, it is better to just let go as everything and everyone will need to leave someday anyway. as you think of it, why bother? since everything will disintegrate...

ashes to ashes, dust to dust. a lifetime of regret and remorse....

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